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Weight Loss Is Simple—Here Are the 10 Foods to Eat Weekly.
I said what I said I’m probably going to piss some people off…But hear me out: Weight loss can actually be simple. Not magical. Not effortless. But simple. And for women over 40, simplicity is exactly what your body needs. The problem? The diet industry has spent decades convincing us that weight loss requires suffering, restriction, and jumping through hoops. I believed it for years too. I thought I needed to eat less, move more, and constantly “try harder.” But when you wip
Laurie Lomenda
1 day ago3 min read


Strong & Festive: 10 High-Protein Holiday Recipes + Your Last Chance to Join the Holiday Warm-up!
For a long time, the holidays were a stressful time for me. Even when I wasn’t actively struggling with an eating disorder, the season would stir up anxiety—pressure to eat “perfectly,” endless family gatherings, and the constant swirl of expectations. I still remember one Christmas in particular: I was standing in the kitchen, staring at a plate of cookies, feeling torn between enjoying them and fearing I’d “ruin” everything I’d worked for. Add in the wine and festive cockta
Laurie Lomenda
Dec 12 min read


The Real Reason I Created StrongHer 30 (And Why I Know It Will Change You, Too)
I want to start this with something honest — the version of me who I've created StrongHer 30 for wasn’t the grounded, confident, aligned woman you see today. She was doing her best… but barely keeping up. She was pouring into everyone — her boys, her husband, his business, her home — and grabbing whatever tiny pieces of herself she could find between the chaos. And even though I’ve been in the fitness and wellness world for years, there was a period where I felt lost inside m
Laurie Lomenda
Nov 243 min read


The Black Friday Sales We Ignore: Strength, Health, Confidence
Black Friday is here. And with it comes the tidal wave of once-a-year deals, doorbusters, “today only” discounts, and countdowns that make you feel like you’re missing out on the deal of a lifetime. Everywhere you go — from your inbox to your Instagram feed — the message is the same: Buy now. Don’t miss it. It’ll make your life better. But there’s one type of investment most people won’t make this time of year. And it’s the one that actually would change their life. We’ll S
Laurie Lomenda
Nov 162 min read


5 Easy, Family-Approved Dinners That Keep You on Track With Your Macros
Healthy, Simple, and Family-Approved Eating healthy doesn’t have to mean cooking separate meals for yourself and your family. I know what it’s like to want to hit your goals while also feeding hungry kids (and a husband who swears he’s “not eating diet food” ). The truth is — macro-friendly meals can be satisfying, delicious, and simple enough for busy weeknights. These five dinners are balanced with protein, carbs, and healthy fats to keep your energy steady, your hormones h
Laurie Lomenda
Nov 104 min read


Let Go of the Guilt: Why “I am Proud of You” Might Be the Mantra You Need Most
A few months ago, I started ending my day with three words: I am proud of you. It started as part of my bedtime routine — just a few minutes of deep breathing before sleep. I’d lie there, eyes closed, and notice how my mind immediately went to what I didn’t do that day. What I forgot. What still needed fixing. That was my pattern for years — constantly looking at the gaps instead of the gains. No matter how much I did, it never felt like enough. So I decided to c
Laurie Lomenda
Nov 32 min read


The Real Reason You Can’t Stick to New Habits (and How to Fix It After 40)
You start strong every Monday — new routine, new promises, new motivation. By Thursday, you’re tired, behind, and telling yourself you’ll start again next week. Sound familiar? A few of my favourite books If you’ve ever felt frustrated wondering why you can’t seem to stay consistent , you’re not alone — and it’s not because you’re lazy or undisciplined. After 40, life looks different. You’re managing more responsibilities, your energy shifts, and your body and brain don’t res
Laurie Lomenda
Oct 274 min read


The Moment I Decided to Come Back to Myself
Journal Entry – January 29, 2021 “I literally forgot I had a soul. I lost me.” I want her back so badly — but where do I start? What do I do? I have no idea, but living like this is no longer an option. Every day feels like a loop — wake up, get everyone ready, work, drive to activities, cook, clean, sleep, and repeat. This isn’t what I asked for. This is so far from what I want. I am so tired. So broken. My bones ache. I can’t remember the last time I felt joy — I’m not even
Laurie Lomenda
Oct 213 min read


Why Fall Is the Perfect Time to Reset Your Wellness Routine
Why Fall Is the Perfect Time to Reset Your Wellness Routine There’s something about fall that just feels like a fresh start. The air...
Laurie Lomenda
Oct 62 min read


How to Recognize When You’re Falling Into a Rut (and Stop Self-Sabotage Before It Spirals)
I’ll be real with you—I’ve been in a bit of a slump this past week. Even as a personal trainer and coach, I’m not immune to ruts. Some...
Laurie Lomenda
Sep 293 min read


This Might Explain Why My Coaching Feels a Little Different
When women come into my coaching world, they often expect me to hand them a program that tells them exactly what to eat, how many...
Laurie Lomenda
Sep 152 min read


StrongHer at Home: Unlocking the Power of Resistance Bands & Dumbbells
Here’s the thing: you don’t need a fancy gym or expensive equipment to get strong. You don’t even need hours of free time. What you do...
Laurie Lomenda
Sep 82 min read


Be Her. Be StrongHer.
There comes a point when you stop waiting for someone to hand you a seat at the table—and you realize: you can build your own. StrongHer...
Laurie Lomenda
Aug 212 min read


From Flooded Floors to Fresh Foundations: A Summer of Unexpected Growth
In my last post, I shared my Summer Survival Guide —real-life tips to help busy moms simplify meal prep and get out the door with a...
Laurie Lomenda
Jul 72 min read


Reclaiming Strength and Confidence After 40 Starts with One Simple Reset
Let’s be honest, life after 40 hits different. Your energy feels lower, your body doesn’t bounce back the way it used to, and your...
Laurie Lomenda
May 122 min read


5 Simple Shifts to Boost Your Energy and Confidence
Confidence doesn’t happen by accident. It’s built moment by moment, decision by decision. Lately, I found myself slipping into self-doubt...
Laurie Lomenda
Apr 213 min read


The Real Reason You’re Struggling with Weight Loss After 40
Let me guess… You’ve tried eating less. You’ve tried moving more. You’ve tracked, measured, cut carbs, and forced yourself through...
Laurie Lomenda
Apr 133 min read


Why I Do What I Do: My Journey to Strength, Wellness & Confidence After 40
I didn’t grow up thinking I would become a personal trainer, nutritionist, or wellness coach. But life has a way of pulling you toward...
Laurie Lomenda
Apr 82 min read
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